It became quite a drama and didn’t hear from her for over a month until now. She told me they’re going to couple’s counseling and that the wedding is still on. But Rick requested that I not attend. It sucks, but I totally get why he wouldn’t be comfortable. Then I asked the obvious question, where are they going to hold the wedding then? To my surprise, she said they still want it at our place.

Rick said so too, and in my mind I’m going “he doesn’t want the guy who dated his fiancée years ago at the wedding, but still wants the wedding at his house.” My wife and I are expected to just... not be at our home that weekend, and I told Carla no. They’re going to have to find some place else, since we’re not going to simply leave our home to them for the weekend. Not only for safety reasons, but it just doesn’t make sense. Rick doesn’t want me around because he’s not comfortable, but is comfortable enough to have their wedding at my house? They really want their wedding here though and because of that I’ve been bugged by not only her but also Rick and some friends who think I’m unkind for not letting them have the wedding here anymore. Honestly don’t think that I am, it just doesn’t make sense at all to have to leave our own place for a wedding we’re no longer welcomed to and leaving our home totally vulnerable. Still, being accused of sabotaging their wedding and Rick believes it’s the least I can do after everything.

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