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“I can buy myself flowers.” Miley Cyrus Got Through a Tough Divorce and Showed the Entire World How Important It Is to Love Yourself

Break-ups are never easy, but the moment when we forget old grudges and feel a rush of energy to do new things is very precious. Miley Cyrus has recently released a new video and proved this point. It has gained millions of views, and the song itself is an anthem of power and loving yourself.

Miley Cyrus proves that her acting and singing talents are incredibly. She became a star when she appeared in Hannah Montana, and then went on to several other big projects. In 2010, she played the main role in The Last Song. Her colleague was Liam Hemsworth.

Interestingly, she didn’t like him at first because she had heard rumors that he didn’t want to be in the movie. Miley couldn’t understand how such an attractive and confident guy could ignore such a chance. But when they learned more about each other, they found common ground and started dating.

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Their romance was never easy. Always in the spotlight, they kept breaking up and then getting back together again. In 2012, Liam proposed to Miley, but they didn’t get married and broke up 1 year later. 2 years later, they started dating again, and in October 2016 they renewed their engagement.

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We don’t know whether they would have had a wedding if it hadn’t been for a tragic accident. In November 2018, there was a fire in Malibu where they lived. Their house burned to the ground, and Liam barely had time to save all their pets. Miley realized that nobody could predict what would happen tomorrow. So, they decided to get married.

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The fire and losing a home affected the singer a lot. She said that even her voice changed. She later admitted that her marriage with Hemsworth was probably the result of the psychological trauma. With her explosive nature, she didn’t have a burning desire to be Liam’s wife.

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The wedding took place at the end of 2018, but the marriage didn’t last long. In August 2019, Miley announced their break-up. The divorce was very public and upset Miley a lot. She had a hard time accepting the fact that people would constantly be talking about her relationship and judging her. But people outside the relationship can’t know all the subtleties and nuances of the situation, so she tried to remind herself that only she and Liam really knew the truth.

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“When it’s over, it’s over. What’s painful isn’t the relationship, it’s then when it’s done, you holding on for that extra however long you try to make it work, something that’s not working.”

After Liam, Miley dated Caitlin Carter and Cody Simpson, but neither of these relationships made her happy. In the past, she had thought that she needed to be in a relationship to be comfortable and calm. But over time, she realized that being alone is not that bad. In a 2020 interview, she said that she was single for the first time since 2015, and she was quite positive about it. Only being single could she do certain things for herself.

Of course, from time to time, Miley would still feel sad, and she’d miss the relationship with her ex-husband. But it passed, and she enjoyed feeling her new strength. Her godmother Dolly Parton inspired her to love herself and respect her own wishes and individuality. The singer learned to move on, and she even started sharing advice with her fans.

“Take time off, relax, enjoy warm meals, indulge in the sweets we usually try to stay away from but also keep moving! Even if it’s for 15-20 minutes a day!”

In January 2023, Miley released her new single “Flowers,” which is setting records in views. The fans saw references to her past relationships in the video and lyrics. It’s hard not to notice how comfortable she is being by herself. She says that she can find what she gets in a relationship in herself. And this is her power. This song is an ode to happiness without a partner, freedom, and loving yourself.

“I can buy myself flowers. Write my name in the sand. Talk to myself for hours, say things you don’t understand. I can take myself dancing, and I can hold my own hand. Yeah, I can love me better than you can.”

Right now, the star is dating Maxx Morando, the drummer of Lilly. They’ve been together for a year, and the singer looks happy. Miley says that she loves the moderation in her relationship. Maxx is 6 years younger than her, but it’s not a problem. They are both creative and interested in music — it’s their common ground.

It seems that the singer has finally found peace with herself and she’s not afraid of being who she is. The new song is a way of showing the world how important it is to love yourself and not settle for a relationship you’re not happy with. And her fans hope that Miley has finally found the person she needs.

Have you watched “Flowers”? What’s your way of loving yourself?

Preview photo credit AXELLE / BAUER-GRIFFIN / East News, Miley Cyrus / YouTube
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